What is Humanism?

Opening the Door

You don't have to be humanist to have a humanist ceremony. In fact, you don't even have to know what humanism is before you start, most people don't! But many people find that there are lots of parts of the humanist philosophy which already resonated with them. So here's my attempt at a (sermon free) introduction.

Humanism in Simple Terms

Humanism is a non-religious worldview which 'does what it says on the tin' and centres the human experience of this life which we share as our source of meaning.

Humanist philosophy encourages:

• Empathy towards other people, and placing value on our social connections

• Inclusivity and respect

• Care for our environment, non-human animals, and the natural world

• Curiosity about the universe, and revising our understanding when we find new evidence as we explore our place in this world

• Celebration, meaning-making, and the pursuit of happiness for ourselves and others in our one life together

Many, many people who hold these beliefs may not even be aware of 'humanism' or know that it describes their beliefs. That's okay!

How Does That Impact Ceremonies?

Humanist ceremonies are shaped by the people at their centre.

There is no doctrine or external requirement for what must be said, and no expectations about how love should look or what it should mean.

Instead, each ceremony can reflect the couple, their priorities, their hopes and dreams for the future, and the stories or objects or people who hold meaning and significance for them.

Why Humanism Matters to Me

For me, humanism is a philosophy rooted in curiosity. It encourages exploration, asking questions, finding or making hidden meanings for ourselves, and celebrating the good in humanity. I find it deeply optimistic and joyful.

It also underpins my inclusive and personal approach to ceremonies, carries with it a childlike sense of wonder at the universe we find ourselves in, and recognises that meaning is made by people whether that is by carrying forward traditions with cultural significance such as handfasting or creating brand new rituals for themselves.

As I share more thoughts on humanism and my ceremonies over the coming weeks I hope that many of you will see your own ideas and philosophies reflected in them. At it's core, it's very simple: Let's make meaning together.